Two families, one heart and the medical miracle that saved a child’s life
A girl from Devon and a boy from Cheshire became intertwined by the most tragic circumstances. In 2017 nine-year old Keira Ball was in a car accident which left her brain dead. For several months prior to that accident nine-year old Max Johnson's heart was slowly failing him. He'd contracted a virus which weaked his heart causing acute cardiomyopothy.
This book is a page turner and takes you on the journey of Keira and Max's lives when they were both happy and healthy children. The experiences of both sets of parents, before the accident and afterwards, will leave you with such empathy for both familes. I did shed a tear or two while reading.
I found this a fascinating book, learned so much such as how ventilators were invented, the beginnings of the first I.C.U. and so much more. It was explained in laymans terms so I was never lost, it was never a dry narrative. The coordination between hospitals, doctors and those working with matching the urgent needs for organ donation is amazing. I never knew how very detailed this process was.
"Grief, as nurses know better than anyone, is the form love takes when someone dies. Perhaps grief hurts as much as it ought to - as much and as fiercely as the person who has died was loved."
Here is part of the letter Max's family gave to the anonymous donor family:
"To the donor family, We are writing to you as you hold a very special place in our hearts. Our son, Max, is 9 and he had a heart transplant. He was very poorly and a heart transplant was his only chance of coming home and starting a new life.
We are so very sorry that you lost your loved one, but we would like to thank you for the incredibly kind, courageous decison that allowed organs to be donated. We do not know the circumstances, but we can only imagine what a dreadful, harrowing time you have been through and are doubtless still going through, with the loss.
Even in your grief, you have made a selfless decision to help others and we are indescribably grateful to you....."
Dr. Rachel Clarke is a palliative care doctor and the author of many books. She lives in Oxfordshire with her husband and children.
This book are shared with:
Shelleyrae at Book'd Out for the 2025 Nonfiction Reader Challenge. Category: Health
Joy's Book Blog for British Isles Friday
Sounds like a tearjerker in places. I get a bit weepy with such tragic ones ... but this was also lifesaving too ... It is heartwarming they saved another's life. But man the loss of a child! The author seems like a special doctor and person to write these books.
ReplyDeleteSusan, it is definitely a tear jerker but it is also inspirational and educational. The background about medical developments and how equipment and procedures were developed was very interesting.
DeleteI don't know if my heart would make it through this one.
ReplyDeleteLindsi, there are certainly emotional parts but wow...such a good book.
DeleteThis sounds like a very moving book, Tina. I'll bet the medical information was really interesting.
ReplyDeleteLes, it's one of my favorite nonfictions in years. Very interesting.
DeleteThere was something terribly comforting in knowing that my grandpap donated as much as he could from his body to others when he passed away.
ReplyDeleteDeb, that is a comfort. We are donors and you have to have that on your license here but the law now states if it's my wish to be a donor, a family member cannot override my wishes. These folks managed to get laws changed in their country about opting in.
DeleteWhat a terrific way to honor hearts and love this week. This sounds like a wonderful book. A friend of mine recently got a job recently working with volunteers at the organ center in our community. I've been learning a lot from her--so much that I didn't know.
ReplyDeleteJoy, it was a wonderful book. Informative, heartbreaking, educational.
DeleteSounds brilliant Tina, thanks for sharing your thoughts
ReplyDeleteShelleyrae, it's one of my favorite nonfictions so far. Great book.
DeleteThis sounds like a fascinating read!
ReplyDeleteThanks for sharing it with us!
Marg, this one goes down as one of my favorites.
DeleteThis sounds like a must read. I imagine it would have me in tears. I have a donor sticker on my driver's license and it's stories like this that make me even more glad I do. Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this one!
ReplyDeleteWendy, it's such a good book. I think you'd like it.
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